By Alyssa Ramos & Contributors
Buckle your seatbelts boys, if you’ve fallen for for a girl who loves to travel, you’re in for a real adventure. Don’t get too excited for the ride yet though, it takes a lot more effort than you think to date a girl who travels.
She also won’t settle. She won’t ever exactly be “easy to understand” , and there will definitely be times when you think she’s crazy or absent. But you’ll also think she’s amazing, loving, cultured, and genuine. So here are some tips on dating the girl who wants to travel the world, so that you can be the one she chooses to do it with. Plus check out the input from some fellow female travel bloggers as well!
A girl who loves to travel has a lot of plans. They aren’t exactly set, but they’re definitely on a to-do list. Or a ‘to-go’ list. She wants to see the world, and is figuring out how to do it. She also probably doesn’t automatically trust. Don’t give up if she seems distant. Chances are that she just wants to be, literally.
“Never ask ‘what’s your plan’…A travelling girl never knows her next destination or life decision, a life of no worries or plans is the right one for her.” – Sarah Richard, CoffeewithaSliceofLife.com
Girls who travel have a tendency to be very confident, mostly because they take risks, are ambitious, and have learned a lot from traveling. Don’t let it deter you — she really doesn’t think of herself as any better than anyone else. If you’re looking for a girl who needs you, don’t date a girl who loves to travel.
“The guy has to understand that he’s not dealing with a typical girl. Girls who travel have a calling/a purpose that they have to embrace. It’s probably not going to change.” Lina Loue, WealthyNomadGirl.com
It should be a given that a girl who loves to travel will always want to randomly go somewhere or do something. It doesn’t have to be anything extravegant, but if you aren’t the type who’s willing to go on a random adventure or road trip, it’s probably not going to work.
“The best gift is a surprise adventure/plane ticket to somewhere you’ve both never been.” – Addie Lynn Minnis, FitFabandForeign.com
It may sound like an oxymoron, but girls who love to travel have a habit of needing things to be scheduled, but then also throwing the plans away and going with the flow. Be able to plan a trip, and somewhat of an itinerary, or stick to the one she has, but don’t be surprised when you get there and everything changes.
“When you say let’s go for a 2-week trip, she will always try to find ways to extend it for at least double the time.” – Rebecca Clipsham, TheWorldasBecSeesIt.com
Chances are if you’re dating a girl who loves to travel (or trying to), that you’llbe traveling together a lot. That means you’ll also double as her best friend and partner in crime. It’s a unique and extraordinary relationship to be able to be best friends with someone you also love, and necessary to a girl who travels.
“Advice from my boyfriend (who is obviously dating a girl who loves to travel), ‘Be a guy who loves to travel!'” – Shelly Borga, NorwaytoNowhere.com
There might be times when she is traveling somewhere and can’t get service, or the time zones may be opposing. It’s important to remember that if she doesn’t contact you right away, but also important to remember when you’re responding. Forgetting to respond when she only has a certain amount of time to communicate is very bad, and even stressful. You should be able to communicate easily and consistently, whether she’s traveling or not.
“My husband said, ‘You have to communicate consistently. Be patient when there’s no communication and trust that they will be coming back to you.’” – Natasha T. Stoppel, ArtistExploresTheWorld.com
Nothing is more awkward or unattractive than when a guy is picky about things like where you’re staying, what you’re doing, and what you’re eating. Sure the room may not look the nicest, and you may have no idea what that pile of moosh is made from, but don’t make a big deal about it. Especially if she’s excited about it.
“Don’t be a picky eater. It’s very possible your girlfriend will want to try the snails in France or some street food in Mexico. For someone who loves adventures and traveling, nothing is more unattractive in a partner than turning up a nose at new foods!” – Samantha Bilkey, SamanthaEnRoute.com
If you can’t go with her, don’t try to hold her back from going. You might not even realize it but if you’re pouting or less than enthusiastic about her traveling, it’ll make her feel bad, and like she shouldn’t go. Not traveling won’t make her happy, so it’s best to just be encouraging and dependable. Also, never make remarks that make you sound uncertain about the length of her trip as if it will cause a damper in the relationship. Time apart should never be an issue.
“When she has a trip planned, don’t tell her to ‘stay’, even though you want to spend time with her. It’s better to tell her, ‘I’ll be waiting for your stories, and if you can and she wants, join her on the trip.'” – The Wanderlure
If you’re not up for hiking to a waterfall, cliff diving, or even driving to a new beach for the day, you should not be trying to date a girl who travels. We have an issue with sitting still, and always want to be doing something. Saying ‘no’ to an adventure is the same thing as holding her back.
“I feel like we don’t like to do the same things” “That’s because you like to do nothing, and I like to do everything…” – Breakup conversation
Trust is essential in every relationship, but it is especially important for someone who travels. Neither person should ever have to worry when the other is or isn’t traveling, especially since sometimes it’ll be for long periods of time. Don’t give any reasons to not be trusted, and more importantly, be trustworthy.
“Be patient when there’s no communication and trust that they will be coming back to you.” – Natasha Stoppel, ArtistExplorestheWorld.com
The words "easy" and "affordable" usually don't go in the same sentence as "Fiji islands",…
Espiritu Santo, one of the Vanuatu islands, is the ultimate destination for an adventure luxury…
If you’re looking into planning a trip to the Solomon Islands, you’ve probably heard the…
After four expeditions to the 7th continent, here's what I have for Antarctica photography tips,…
Financial freedom is something I never knew was a thing until people started asking me…
After seeing a promotional article dubbing the "50 Best Beaches in the World" for 2024,…
View Comments
I was never really interested in the idea of traveling alone until the last year or so. I've been with my boyfriend for almost 3 years... and he has no interest in traveling. He's willing to try because he knows how important it is to me, and he knows that I'll NEVER stop, but working for an international travel company while having been to all 7 continents at 28 with an ever growing bucket list and fantasies in my head about exploring the world with my soulmate, I've been teaching myself how to be okay with the concept of traveling alone. To make a long story short, I sent him this post :)
Uhhh #lifegoals! Girrrllll, International travel company, the 7th continent (Antarctica is seriously killing my travel dreams lol), and a bf willing to try traveling bc you love it??? GO YOU!!!!
where does one find the ladies that like to travel?
I'm beginning to fall in love with traveling as well and I think your list can work for both guys and girls.
Love this! I think it can be hard choosing to travel even if you have a partner you have to leave at home. I hope guys can understand that we're not rejecting them by choosing to travel alone, but that choosing NOT to would be rejecting our dreams.
Love your blog Alyssa! I think this post will totally help any guy to better understand a wanderlust. Congrats on the new projects too :)
Hahaha, this is sooo spot on! Loved all the contributions too!
I think we're a special breed of people and it takes a special breed of men to understand that once we've gotten a taste of the world, the lingering appetite for more will stay there forever.
Sure it will be hard and there will be sacrifices, but man will this make for a fun and dynamic relationship! Tis why travelers need to mate, reproduce, and create more travel lovers, haha.
This is an awesome post! It turned out really well! I love the tips, and they are definitely very true to me, a girl who loves to travel. All I can say to my future husband is, there will never be a dull moment, especially with a girl who loves to travel! Wow thanks so much for including my two cents on the subject :P I literally do think that when a guy, or anyone for that matter tells me two weeks, in my head I definitely hear double. Happy travels and again, great post!
Haha I love it!!! I love hearing what other girls who love to travel have to say too because I'm like...I feel like we all think the same...lol Thanks for contributing!!
Good advice
So true!
I once dated a guy, who didn't understand that I had to travel for 5 months before I could see him again. Unfortunately it didn't work out. But yes, the guy has to be patient. What can a girl do? Settle down? Definitely not (yet) :-D