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Original Article: 15 Orcas Surrounded Our Boat in Mexico, So We Jumped in and Swam With Them.

There’s no way to even properly introduce this story, so I’m just going to straight up say it — a pod of around 15 wild Orcas completely surrounded our boat in Mexico, and what happened next was both magical and terrifying — we got in the water, and we swam with them.

orcas surrounding our boat in Mexico

I’m not going to lie, I traveled to Baja California Sur, Mexico with one goal in mind: to experience the famous “Sea Safari” adventures in the Sea of Cortez and to hopefully encounter some of the ocean’s largest marine animals in the wild, in particular, the elusive Orcas. The region is known for its incredible biodiversity, from various types of whales and dolphins to mobula rays and sea lions, and yes, the Orcas are known to pass through and hang out at certain times of the year.

When I went, it wasn’t one of those times of the year, so I knew my chances were low, especially since April isn’t the prime season for them to be there, but I also knew I’d be happy seeing literally any sea animal, and low-key that I have really good animal-sighting luck, so I tried anyway. And they got my message.

Just to give some early disclaimers, not only are wild orca sightings never guaranteed, but there also aren’t any official “Orca swimming tours” for ethical and realistic reasons.

Mexico just started allowing people to swim with Orcas because they are part of the dolphin family, not the whale family, and swimming with whales is still prohibited. This new change has attracted an enormous surge in tourists coming to La Ventana to swim with Orcas, and I don’t want to contribute to over-tourism and high expectations, so I will continue to emphasize that it’s extremely rare for this to happen, and that it must be done in an ethical way, or it will disturb the animals, likely scare them away, or more likely, cause dangerous incidents to occur. Please only go with an ethical sea safari company that follows all rules and regulations!

But I have to admit, swimming with wild orcas felt more like an impossible fantasy than a realistic expectation. Here’s my story of the most magical animal interaction of my life (well, one of them).

The Morning We Decided to Go Out on the Boat Early

An orca approaches a boat with two women in Mexico
This was the moment we first saw the Orcas’ dorsal fins, and shortly after, they surrounded our boat!(Alyssa Ramos MyLifesAMovie.com @mylifesatravelmovie)

When I was planning my trip to La Ventana, the ethical sea safari company I found (female founded and run using marine biologists and local captains) advised me to do at least three days of sea safaris. They’re a bit pricey, and I was concerned about that, but she assured me that each day is different, and your chances of seeing the most animals increases with the amount of days you go out.

I agreed, especially after seeing some vlogger guys who stayed there three weeks and only saw Orcas once. That made my expectations even lower though, three days suddenly didn’t seem like enough.

The first day was nice, we saw several humpback whales from a distance, but we followed the no-swimming-with-whales-rule, and weren’t able to get in the water at all. My hopes to see Orcas diminished, so I started hoping for a Blue Whale or something instead.

Then our marine biologist guide suggested going out earlier than usual the next morning, around sunrise, and we all unanimously agreed.

When my alarm went off before sunrise I sprang up like a child on Christmas morning. I pulled on the my fish-pattern long sleeved swim suit, grabbed all of my waterproof cameras, then set off with my travel friends to climb down the steep tire-steps, onto the beach. For some reason I decided to do a little manifestation yoga flow, trying to telepathically call the animals to us (I’m weird, I know), and one of my fellow dive buddies wore her Orca print rash guard for good luck.

The Sea of Cortez was glowing gold in the early morning light, perfectly calm and eerily still. It just felt like something was going to happen. But I didn’t get my hopes up.

When our captain and marine biologist guide slowly pulled up in the ten-seater boat, she looked at my friend in her Orca swimsuit and said, “Well someone here is dressed appropriately for today.” We all shrieked and wiggled with excitement as she explained that local fishermen had spotted Orcas earlier that morning, but there was no telling whether they’d still be nearby by the time we arrived.

“They could already be gone,” she warned us. “But we’ll try to go towards where they were seen.”

For about 30 minutes, we searched the horizon while cruising slowly across the glassy water. We passed a humpback that they would have stopped at normally but we all begged to keep going. We strained our eyes and scanned the flat sea in all directions, slightly losing hope. Then suddenly, someone spotted them.

Tall, black, shimmering dorsal fins rising in the distance. One of the dorsal fins at least four feet long.

Orcas.


What We Did When 15 Orcas Surrounded Our Boat

A woman snorkeling with orcas in Mexico
I was able to snorkel with about 15 Orcas including a male and one calf, an extremely rare occasion!(Alyssa Ramos @mylifesatravelmovie MyLifesAMovie.com)

The energy onboard instantly shifted from quiet anticipation to complete chaos. I could feel my heart pounding as the captain immediately shut off the engine so we wouldn’t disturb the pod or scare them away.

At first, the orcas were swimming in what seemed like a stationary circular pattern in the distance.

Then they turned. It seemed like they had spotted us.

And then they started heading directly toward our boat.

I genuinely didn’t know whether to be excited or terrified. One minute I was laughing hysterically, the next I was shrieking uncontrollably while trying not to cry with joy. Swimming with orcas had been one of my biggest dreams for what seems like a lifetime, but now that it was actually happening, my brain almost couldn’t process it.

Then suddenly they vanished beneath the surface.

The ocean became completely calm again, and everyone leaned over the sides of the boat trying to look into the deep blue water below us. Our captain, however, stayed strangely calm — almost like he knew exactly what was about to happen.

I was kneeling at the bow when suddenly a massive dorsal fin suddenly emerged directly beneath me, like a ghost pirate ship rising from the depths.

An enormous male orca surfaced so close to the front of the boat that it looked intentional, his enormous dorsal fin slicing through the water just feet away. Moments later, his shiny black head rose near the bow, close enough for me to clearly see the smooth texture of his skin and his blowhole sucking in air. I could also see his eye, and knew he was observing us as well for danger.

At the same time, a female surfaced beside him and rolled playfully onto her side, flashing her white belly while splashing at the surface like she was showing off for us.https://www.instagram.com/p/DXStChXk2Ef/embed/captioned/?cr=1&v=12

That was the moment I completely lost it emotionally.

I’m not usually someone who cries during travel experiences (or ever), but I cried. I laughed, yelled “OH MY GOD” repeatedly, and basically short-circuited from adrenaline and disbelief.


What the Experience Was Like Seeing Orcas Up Close

Close up of a wild orca with mating scratches in Mexico
The Orcas made eye contact with us and sometimes were so close that we could see their mating scratches(Alyssa Ramos MyLifesAMovie.com @mylifesatravelmovie)More

At one point, someone shouted that the pod was surfacing on the other side of the boat, and I practically threw myself over the edge trying to get a better look into the water.

At first I could barely make out their black-and-white bodies moving beneath the surface, but instinctively I lowered my action camera just below the waterline without even looking at the screen.

That split-second decision turned out to be one of the best I’ve ever made.

Later, when I watched the footage back, I could see the orcas in incredible detail — gliding effortlessly through the water beneath us, close enough to see scratches on their fins, mating bite marks, and even tiny sea organisms attached to their skin. I could also see their eyes, all looking for ours, and observing us carefully.

Seeing those details somehow made the encounter feel even more emotional and real. Especially as a girl from Florida who grew up thinking the only way you’d be able to see an Orca was at SeaWorld

It wasn’t like watching animals from afar. It felt like being briefly invited into their world.


Getting in the Water With Wild Orcas

A male orca swimming next to our boat in La Ventana Mexico
The Male Orca and the rest of the pod followed us for hours that day, which is a rare situation(Alyssa Ramos @mylifesatravelmovie MyLifesAMovie.com)

Then came the moment that many people will probably think was completely insane.

After carefully observing the pod’s behavior, our marine biologist guide determined that the Orcas appeared calm, curious, and playful. Based on their movements and reactions around the boat, she told us we could quietly enter the water with them.

The adrenaline rush that hit my body in that moment is impossible to describe.

Every survival instinct in my brain was battling against pure excitement. Part of me (most of me) wanted to jump in immediately, while another part was flashing through every viral clip I’d ever seen of captive orcas launching trainers through the air at SeaWorld like a helpless Barbie doll.

Still, we trusted our guide completely and followed every instruction carefully. She entered the water first while we waited, determined to make sure the interaction remained as respectful and controlled as possible.

Then we slipped into the water behind her, careful not to make any fast movements or splashes.

The second I put my face beneath the surface, I saw them.

Orcas, swimming directly toward us through the deep blue water.

For one terrifying second, I genuinely wondered if I was about to become an Orca toy. But instead of behaving aggressively, they dove down underneath us, circled us curiously, made eye contact, and then dove gracefully beneath us again before disappearing back into the depths.

A few moments later, they resurfaced farther away and repeated the same curious little hide-and-seek game all over again with another boat that had just arrived. I knew it wouldn’t be long before the word spread and all the boats came to see them, so I revelled in the moment, knowing it likely wouldn’t happen again.

But the even more unthinkable happened! They stayed with the boats for several hours! Most of the other companies respected the rules like only allowing six people in the water at a time, and giving other boats turns to go in too. But some definitely didn’t, and it’s those companies and tourists who will ruin it for everyone.

We were happy and appreciative to just keep watching the Orcas from the boat, but then suddenly we got the green light to go in the water with them again!

It was a similar interaction, except this time the Orcas seemed to be either showing off or sending a warning; they were dragging around the very-dead, very-played with, carcass of either a shark or a dolphin.

Finally, the Orcas stopped circling around the boats, and made a straight pathway towards the open sea, outside of the calm sanctuary of La Ventana. I knew they would soon be gone, and I literally thanked them out loud for coming to visit that day.

It was one of the most exhilarating wildlife encounters of my life. (Some of my others include the many Silverback gorilla treks I’ve done in D.R. Congo and Uganda, swimming with humpbacks in Tonga, my hobby of shark diving, and so many Big 5 sightings that I’ve lost track.)


Important Disclaimers About Ethical Sea Life Tours in Mexico

A female orca spinning and playing near our boat in Mexico
A female Orca playfully twirling around near our boat!(Alyssa Ramos @mylifesatravelmovie MyLifesAMovie.com)

Before anyone rushes to criticize the experience — or assumes this is some guaranteed tourist attraction — there are important things worth understanding about ethical wildlife encounters in Baja California Sur.

First, encounters like this are incredibly rare and completely dependent on the animals. The tours do not bait, feed, or aggressively chase the orcas, and guests only enter the water if the marine biologist believes the pod is displaying calm and curious behavior. Many tours never see orcas at all, and most interactions happen entirely from the boat.

Swimming with orcas in Mexico and what the boat tours look like
Mexico is now allowing regulated Orca swimming but without ethical tour operators and tourists, it will turn into over-tourism!(Alyssa Ramos @mylifesatravelmovie MyLifesAMovie.com)More

That’s also important because social media often makes wildlife encounters look staged or casual when they absolutely are not. These are wild apex predators, and no ethical operator can ever promise an in-water interaction.

The reality is that this happened entirely on the orcas’ terms.

We weren’t trying to touch them, corner them, or force interaction. Most of the experience involved quietly floating, observing, and allowing the animals to decide whether they wanted to approach us.

And despite how magical it felt, there’s no denying that interactions like this carry both risk and controversy. Everyone will have different opinions about wildlife tourism, and honestly, that’s understandable.

But what made this encounter so unforgettable wasn’t just the adrenaline.

It was the overwhelming feeling that, for a few brief moments, these intelligent animals chose to interact with us willingly in the wild.

And honestly, I still can’t believe it happened!

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Alyssa Ramos is one of the first original travel blogger/influencers who helped normalize solo female travel. She’s been to 146 countries so far, plus Antarctica 4x, and all of her tips are on this blog!

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Living like My Life’s a Travel Movie ✈️ 146 countries (solo) & counting, all my tips on MyLifesAMovie.com! GroupTrips: @mylifesatraveltribe
  • Anyone else here grow up watching Free Willy and cried every time? Wait till you see Orcas in real life! 🥹

BTW it’s World Orca Day!!! Yay!!! Share this with a friend who also loves Orcas and Free Willy!!

A trip to Mexico to do a Sea Safari where you can potentially see Orcas is likely cheaper than a trip to seaworld to see them in captivity. The choice is yours! (Plz don’t support captivity)

All of the info to do this Sea Safari is on my website mylifesamovie.com — full disclaimer that there are no specific “orca tours” because they are highly unpredictable! And all trips must follow local regulations and rules! 

After 12 years of continuous travel to over 140 countries, I have to say that this is one of my top memorable moments!
  • I got off the plane in the wrong country in Africa and almost got left in a small remote town with limited flights 😬

What had happened wasssss…I was flying from Zanzibar (Tanzania) to a country called Burundi but was not aware of a quick stopover, so when we landed, I saw a welcome celebration, assumed I was in Burundi, then got distracted watching the ceremony and didn’t realize my hosts weren’t there…

Luckily, an airport worker came to find me, it wasn’t hard because I was the only foreigner there, but I accidentally made the whole plane wait an extra 20 minutes 🤦‍♀️ 

Cool experience though! However if I had realized I was in the wrong country, I would have had a panic attack.

How bout you?

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For anyone new here: Hi! I’m Alyssa Ramos of @mylifesatravelmovie - one of the most traveled and most experienced solo travel women in the world! I’ve been to 146 countries so far over 12 years, and love rare destinations and animals! My goal is to inspire you to travel off the typical path and to shatter negative stereotypes about “dangerous” destinations. Follow me for expert tips and inspiration!
  • Fact: when I was young, I never thought I’d get to leave the country. I grew up with hand-me-downs and free-or-reduced lunch (iykyk), with a hard working single mom and 3 other siblings. 

My favorite movies were any Disney movies with animals, and of course, Free Willy! 

I used to dream of seeing those animals in the wild…and when I grew up, I learned the motto “Dreams don’t work unless you do”, worked my butt off, built a successful travel career, and now get to see alllllll the animals!

So if you’re thinking “she’s living my dream”, remember, it was once mine too, and if I can make it happen, so can you!

All of my travel tips and itineraries for these places are available on my blog - mylifesamovie.com !

They are all ethical animal encounters, and the responsible tourism to see them helps protect them against poaching!

Locations:

- Orcas in Baja, Mexico
- Elephants at a sanctuary (formerly used for riding and saved now, please don’t ride elephants!)
- Lions in the wild of Serengeti

Any other animal lovers out there?

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For anyone new here: Hi! I’m Alyssa Ramos of @mylifesatravelmovie - one of the most traveled and most experienced solo travel women in the world! I’ve been to 146 countries so far over 12 years, and love rare destinations and animals! My goal is to inspire you to travel off the typical path and to shatter negative stereotypes about “dangerous” destinations. Follow me for expert tips and inspiration!
  • As I approach my 150th country and 12 years of continuous travel, I’ve decided it’s time to start reflecting back on all of these extraordinary places and experiences, and what better way than to finally answer the top question I get, “What’s been your favorite country?”

My answer is usually, “The next one!”

But now it’s time to go more in depth! Every week I’ll be posting what my favorites have (and have not) been, but in a variety of topics!

Please read the caption of each for the country and why it shattered my expectations! 

My passion has and always will be photography and writing, so please let me know if you enjoy posts like this one, and also any “best or worst” topics you’d like me to cover! 

Thank you, as always, I appreciate each and every one of you who has followed my journey around the world!

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For anyone new here: Hi! I’m Alyssa Ramos, one of this generations’ most traveled and most experienced solo travel women in the world! I’ve been to 146 countries so far, and Antarctica 4x over 12 years, with a passion for shattering negative stereotypes about women, animals, cultures, and countries. My goal is to inspire you to travel off the typical path. Follow me @mylifesatravelmovie for expert tips and inspiration! 

BURUNDI — This has been one of my favorite “hidden gems” in Africa, and it completely shattered my expectations (even though I got off the plane in the wrong country trying to get there)! I was shown around by locals, who took me to an incredible waterfall, a drum ceremony, and then they invited me to a wedding!! It’s been one of the most real, unique experiences I’ve had, and I’d love to talk more about it!

CHINA — My current fascination is exploring as much of China as I can! After a bad experience in my early travels, I finally returned with a lot more travel experience, and absolutely fell in love. China is truly ahead of the curve, and as they say “living in the future”, but I also loved that I could still experience a lot of their traditional past!

SAUDI ARABIA — before I got stuck in the woarzone earlier this year, I traveled solo to Saudi expecting difficulties and judgement. Instead, I was treated with respect, and I
  • Am I afraid of Orcas? More like obsessed with them. I WISH they’d pop up when I’ve done the Polar Plunge, but so far they’ve only ever approached our small boat in Mexico, where we were permitted to follow regulations and swim with them!

I’ve done the Polar Plunge in Antarctica 3x and once in the Arctic, Orcas are always possibly present, but I know that humans are NOT part of their diet. We probably have too many toxins, chemicals, and damaged livers for them. 😁

I’ll be repeating both activities soon, so if you’d like more info on solo travel to Antarctica, the Arctic, or swimming with Orcas in Mexico, (OR joining one of my community’s expeditions there) drop me a comment and I’ll answer, 

Or check out the links on my profile for all of my global travel tips from over 143 countries and 12 years of traveling!
  • I’ve climbed Kilimanjaro and Everest Basecamp with no fear of heights issues at all, then I got to China and suddenly developed jelly legs and vertigo 😳😂

Out of the 145 countries I’ve been to so far, China by far wins for most extreme adrenaline activities, especially at extreme heights!

Everyone does them so casually there too, even in dresses like me, so maybe I’ve found my adventure people!!

I’m already planning to go back to China. I love it that much. Have you been? Wanna join us?

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For anyone new here: hi! I’m Alyssa Ramos of @mylifesatravelmovie - one of the most traveled and most experienced solo travel women in the world! I’ve been to 146 countries so far over 12 years, and love rare destinations, and my goal is to inspire you to travel off the typical path. Follow me for expert tips and inspiration!
  • I bought a new phone in China bc you get a decent tax refund, but soon after, it started talking to me in Chinese, and then people started calling it and sending text messages!

I honestly felt like I was in a movie, where you find a phone and then suddenly you’re forced to carry out some crazy mission or something! 

Turns out, for some reason, the girl who sold me the phone put her own SIM card in it to activate it (no idea why), and it was all her friends calling her. 😂

Anyway, FYI you’re NOT supposed to open any tax refund products from their boxes before you leave the country! And you have to get the papers signed/approved BEFORE and after customs! Makes a few hundred dolla difference!

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New here? Hi! I’m Alyssa Ramos @mylifesatravelmovie, one of the world’s most experienced solo female travelers who has been to 146 countries plus Antarctica 4x. Follow here for bucketlist and  peculiar travel destinations and encounters!
  • True story: I did not speak any Italian (besides ciao, grazie, and vino) and my husband didn’t speak any English when we first met!!

We used translation apps and some Spanish (he understands because Sardinian sounds similar) but when I first moved here, to a small traditional town where not many people speak English, it was very, very evident that I needed to learn Italian.

Knowing Spanish didn’t help me. The conjugations are completely different and so are most words (dislike when ppl assume I learned bc of that).

And full immersion didn’t force me to learn either, bc my ADHD would just tune out. Apps also easily bored me.

So I looked up online tutors and found Preply, which has thousands of real humans to teach you face to face online, and they can customize your lessons to your learning style and needs.

I’ve been doing Italian lessons twice a week for almost 3 years now, and the online tutors are the main reason why I can speak conversational Italian now!

So if you dream of meeting your partner randomly in another country, or planning to move abroad, and you want to learn the language (or just want to learn one for fun), check out my blog post and please use my link on there for a discount and affil for me! Mylifesamovie.com !

My current tutor Lara is amazing, she does my Italian lessons also in English and Spanish so I don’t forget my native tongue! Also doubles as an unofficial therapist 😂😂

Last, let this bring some hope and inspo to my fellow solo female travelers! If you haven’t found your partner yet, he may be waiting for you in another country!!

If you’d like to see what my life is like, married and living on a vineyard in Sardinia, tap the account at the top that I shared this post with!

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This post is about:
Moving to Italy, learning Italian, living in Italy, married in Italy, life in Sardinia
  • A pod of 15 Orcas surrounded our small boat in La Ventana, Mexico… my reaction was squealing like a child and I even cried a few tears (don’t tell anyone). 

Then, after careful behavioral assessment by our marine biologist guide, we were given permission to swim with them for about 2 minutes!

I cried even more after that, it was one of the most magical moments of my life!

This was an ethical Sea Safari trip with an experienced, animals-first, women-run company. Orca tours do not exist since you cannot predict when they will show up.

There are also many rules and regulations to keep this safe and ethical, so please check out my other posts about it, and for info on how to book this trip, search “orcas” on my blog - mylifesamovie.com!

Is this anyone else’s dream?

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For anyone new: Hi! I’m Alyssa! I am one of the first OG solo female travel blogger/influencers who started traveling 14 years ago and hasn’t stopped! I’ve been to 146 countries solo so far, Antarctica 4x, climbed Kilimanjaro and Everest Basecamp, and my hobby is swimming with apex predators. I’m from the U.S. but moved abroad many years ago, now I live part time on a vineyard in Sardinia, and Tulum!

Please follow me here for expert travel tips and wild stories from the most unique places on earth!
Anyone else here grow up watching Free Willy and cried every time? Wait till you see Orcas in real life! 🥹 BTW it’s World Orca Day!!! Yay!!! Share this with a friend who also loves Orcas and Free Willy!! A trip to Mexico to do a Sea Safari where you can potentially see Orcas is likely cheaper than a trip to seaworld to see them in captivity. The choice is yours! (Plz don’t support captivity) All of the info to do this Sea Safari is on my website mylifesamovie.com — full disclaimer that there are no specific “orca tours” because they are highly unpredictable! And all trips must follow local regulations and rules! After 12 years of continuous travel to over 140 countries, I have to say that this is one of my top memorable moments!
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I got off the plane in the wrong country in Africa and almost got left in a small remote town with limited flights 😬 What had happened wasssss…I was flying from Zanzibar (Tanzania) to a country called Burundi but was not aware of a quick stopover, so when we landed, I saw a welcome celebration, assumed I was in Burundi, then got distracted watching the ceremony and didn’t realize my hosts weren’t there… Luckily, an airport worker came to find me, it wasn’t hard because I was the only foreigner there, but I accidentally made the whole plane wait an extra 20 minutes 🤦‍♀️ Cool experience though! However if I had realized I was in the wrong country, I would have had a panic attack. How bout you? ———————- For anyone new here: Hi! I’m Alyssa Ramos of @mylifesatravelmovie - one of the most traveled and most experienced solo travel women in the world! I’ve been to 146 countries so far over 12 years, and love rare destinations and animals! My goal is to inspire you to travel off the typical path and to shatter negative stereotypes about “dangerous” destinations. Follow me for expert tips and inspiration!
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Fact: when I was young, I never thought I’d get to leave the country. I grew up with hand-me-downs and free-or-reduced lunch (iykyk), with a hard working single mom and 3 other siblings. My favorite movies were any Disney movies with animals, and of course, Free Willy! I used to dream of seeing those animals in the wild…and when I grew up, I learned the motto “Dreams don’t work unless you do”, worked my butt off, built a successful travel career, and now get to see alllllll the animals! So if you’re thinking “she’s living my dream”, remember, it was once mine too, and if I can make it happen, so can you! All of my travel tips and itineraries for these places are available on my blog - mylifesamovie.com ! They are all ethical animal encounters, and the responsible tourism to see them helps protect them against poaching! Locations: - Orcas in Baja, Mexico - Elephants at a sanctuary (formerly used for riding and saved now, please don’t ride elephants!) - Lions in the wild of Serengeti Any other animal lovers out there? ————- For anyone new here: Hi! I’m Alyssa Ramos of @mylifesatravelmovie - one of the most traveled and most experienced solo travel women in the world! I’ve been to 146 countries so far over 12 years, and love rare destinations and animals! My goal is to inspire you to travel off the typical path and to shatter negative stereotypes about “dangerous” destinations. Follow me for expert tips and inspiration!
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As I approach my 150th country and 12 years of continuous travel, I’ve decided it’s time to start reflecting back on all of these extraordinary places and experiences, and what better way than to finally answer the top question I get, “What’s been your favorite country?”

My answer is usually, “The next one!”

But now it’s time to go more in depth! Every week I’ll be posting what my favorites have (and have not) been, but in a variety of topics!

Please read the caption of each for the country and why it shattered my expectations! 

My passion has and always will be photography and writing, so please let me know if you enjoy posts like this one, and also any “best or worst” topics you’d like me to cover! 

Thank you, as always, I appreciate each and every one of you who has followed my journey around the world!

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For anyone new here: Hi! I’m Alyssa Ramos, one of this generations’ most traveled and most experienced solo travel women in the world! I’ve been to 146 countries so far, and Antarctica 4x over 12 years, with a passion for shattering negative stereotypes about women, animals, cultures, and countries. My goal is to inspire you to travel off the typical path. Follow me @mylifesatravelmovie for expert tips and inspiration! 

BURUNDI — This has been one of my favorite “hidden gems” in Africa, and it completely shattered my expectations (even though I got off the plane in the wrong country trying to get there)! I was shown around by locals, who took me to an incredible waterfall, a drum ceremony, and then they invited me to a wedding!! It’s been one of the most real, unique experiences I’ve had, and I’d love to talk more about it!

CHINA — My current fascination is exploring as much of China as I can! After a bad experience in my early travels, I finally returned with a lot more travel experience, and absolutely fell in love. China is truly ahead of the curve, and as they say “living in the future”, but I also loved that I could still experience a lot of their traditional past!

SAUDI ARABIA — before I got stuck in the woarzone earlier this year, I traveled solo to Saudi expecting difficulties and judgement. Instead, I was treated with respect, and I
As I approach my 150th country and 12 years of continuous travel, I’ve decided it’s time to start reflecting back on all of these extraordinary places and experiences, and what better way than to finally answer the top question I get, “What’s been your favorite country?”

My answer is usually, “The next one!”

But now it’s time to go more in depth! Every week I’ll be posting what my favorites have (and have not) been, but in a variety of topics!

Please read the caption of each for the country and why it shattered my expectations! 

My passion has and always will be photography and writing, so please let me know if you enjoy posts like this one, and also any “best or worst” topics you’d like me to cover! 

Thank you, as always, I appreciate each and every one of you who has followed my journey around the world!

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For anyone new here: Hi! I’m Alyssa Ramos, one of this generations’ most traveled and most experienced solo travel women in the world! I’ve been to 146 countries so far, and Antarctica 4x over 12 years, with a passion for shattering negative stereotypes about women, animals, cultures, and countries. My goal is to inspire you to travel off the typical path. Follow me @mylifesatravelmovie for expert tips and inspiration! 

BURUNDI — This has been one of my favorite “hidden gems” in Africa, and it completely shattered my expectations (even though I got off the plane in the wrong country trying to get there)! I was shown around by locals, who took me to an incredible waterfall, a drum ceremony, and then they invited me to a wedding!! It’s been one of the most real, unique experiences I’ve had, and I’d love to talk more about it!

CHINA — My current fascination is exploring as much of China as I can! After a bad experience in my early travels, I finally returned with a lot more travel experience, and absolutely fell in love. China is truly ahead of the curve, and as they say “living in the future”, but I also loved that I could still experience a lot of their traditional past!

SAUDI ARABIA — before I got stuck in the woarzone earlier this year, I traveled solo to Saudi expecting difficulties and judgement. Instead, I was treated with respect, and I
As I approach my 150th country and 12 years of continuous travel, I’ve decided it’s time to start reflecting back on all of these extraordinary places and experiences, and what better way than to finally answer the top question I get, “What’s been your favorite country?”

My answer is usually, “The next one!”

But now it’s time to go more in depth! Every week I’ll be posting what my favorites have (and have not) been, but in a variety of topics!

Please read the caption of each for the country and why it shattered my expectations! 

My passion has and always will be photography and writing, so please let me know if you enjoy posts like this one, and also any “best or worst” topics you’d like me to cover! 

Thank you, as always, I appreciate each and every one of you who has followed my journey around the world!

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For anyone new here: Hi! I’m Alyssa Ramos, one of this generations’ most traveled and most experienced solo travel women in the world! I’ve been to 146 countries so far, and Antarctica 4x over 12 years, with a passion for shattering negative stereotypes about women, animals, cultures, and countries. My goal is to inspire you to travel off the typical path. Follow me @mylifesatravelmovie for expert tips and inspiration! 

BURUNDI — This has been one of my favorite “hidden gems” in Africa, and it completely shattered my expectations (even though I got off the plane in the wrong country trying to get there)! I was shown around by locals, who took me to an incredible waterfall, a drum ceremony, and then they invited me to a wedding!! It’s been one of the most real, unique experiences I’ve had, and I’d love to talk more about it!

CHINA — My current fascination is exploring as much of China as I can! After a bad experience in my early travels, I finally returned with a lot more travel experience, and absolutely fell in love. China is truly ahead of the curve, and as they say “living in the future”, but I also loved that I could still experience a lot of their traditional past!

SAUDI ARABIA — before I got stuck in the woarzone earlier this year, I traveled solo to Saudi expecting difficulties and judgement. Instead, I was treated with respect, and I
As I approach my 150th country and 12 years of continuous travel, I’ve decided it’s time to start reflecting back on all of these extraordinary places and experiences, and what better way than to finally answer the top question I get, “What’s been your favorite country?”

My answer is usually, “The next one!”

But now it’s time to go more in depth! Every week I’ll be posting what my favorites have (and have not) been, but in a variety of topics!

Please read the caption of each for the country and why it shattered my expectations! 

My passion has and always will be photography and writing, so please let me know if you enjoy posts like this one, and also any “best or worst” topics you’d like me to cover! 

Thank you, as always, I appreciate each and every one of you who has followed my journey around the world!

—————

For anyone new here: Hi! I’m Alyssa Ramos, one of this generations’ most traveled and most experienced solo travel women in the world! I’ve been to 146 countries so far, and Antarctica 4x over 12 years, with a passion for shattering negative stereotypes about women, animals, cultures, and countries. My goal is to inspire you to travel off the typical path. Follow me @mylifesatravelmovie for expert tips and inspiration! 

BURUNDI — This has been one of my favorite “hidden gems” in Africa, and it completely shattered my expectations (even though I got off the plane in the wrong country trying to get there)! I was shown around by locals, who took me to an incredible waterfall, a drum ceremony, and then they invited me to a wedding!! It’s been one of the most real, unique experiences I’ve had, and I’d love to talk more about it!

CHINA — My current fascination is exploring as much of China as I can! After a bad experience in my early travels, I finally returned with a lot more travel experience, and absolutely fell in love. China is truly ahead of the curve, and as they say “living in the future”, but I also loved that I could still experience a lot of their traditional past!

SAUDI ARABIA — before I got stuck in the woarzone earlier this year, I traveled solo to Saudi expecting difficulties and judgement. Instead, I was treated with respect, and I
As I approach my 150th country and 12 years of continuous travel, I’ve decided it’s time to start reflecting back on all of these extraordinary places and experiences, and what better way than to finally answer the top question I get, “What’s been your favorite country?”

My answer is usually, “The next one!”

But now it’s time to go more in depth! Every week I’ll be posting what my favorites have (and have not) been, but in a variety of topics!

Please read the caption of each for the country and why it shattered my expectations! 

My passion has and always will be photography and writing, so please let me know if you enjoy posts like this one, and also any “best or worst” topics you’d like me to cover! 

Thank you, as always, I appreciate each and every one of you who has followed my journey around the world!

—————

For anyone new here: Hi! I’m Alyssa Ramos, one of this generations’ most traveled and most experienced solo travel women in the world! I’ve been to 146 countries so far, and Antarctica 4x over 12 years, with a passion for shattering negative stereotypes about women, animals, cultures, and countries. My goal is to inspire you to travel off the typical path. Follow me @mylifesatravelmovie for expert tips and inspiration! 

BURUNDI — This has been one of my favorite “hidden gems” in Africa, and it completely shattered my expectations (even though I got off the plane in the wrong country trying to get there)! I was shown around by locals, who took me to an incredible waterfall, a drum ceremony, and then they invited me to a wedding!! It’s been one of the most real, unique experiences I’ve had, and I’d love to talk more about it!

CHINA — My current fascination is exploring as much of China as I can! After a bad experience in my early travels, I finally returned with a lot more travel experience, and absolutely fell in love. China is truly ahead of the curve, and as they say “living in the future”, but I also loved that I could still experience a lot of their traditional past!

SAUDI ARABIA — before I got stuck in the woarzone earlier this year, I traveled solo to Saudi expecting difficulties and judgement. Instead, I was treated with respect, and I
As I approach my 150th country and 12 years of continuous travel, I’ve decided it’s time to start reflecting back on all of these extraordinary places and experiences, and what better way than to finally answer the top question I get, “What’s been your favorite country?”

My answer is usually, “The next one!”

But now it’s time to go more in depth! Every week I’ll be posting what my favorites have (and have not) been, but in a variety of topics!

Please read the caption of each for the country and why it shattered my expectations! 

My passion has and always will be photography and writing, so please let me know if you enjoy posts like this one, and also any “best or worst” topics you’d like me to cover! 

Thank you, as always, I appreciate each and every one of you who has followed my journey around the world!

—————

For anyone new here: Hi! I’m Alyssa Ramos, one of this generations’ most traveled and most experienced solo travel women in the world! I’ve been to 146 countries so far, and Antarctica 4x over 12 years, with a passion for shattering negative stereotypes about women, animals, cultures, and countries. My goal is to inspire you to travel off the typical path. Follow me @mylifesatravelmovie for expert tips and inspiration! 

BURUNDI — This has been one of my favorite “hidden gems” in Africa, and it completely shattered my expectations (even though I got off the plane in the wrong country trying to get there)! I was shown around by locals, who took me to an incredible waterfall, a drum ceremony, and then they invited me to a wedding!! It’s been one of the most real, unique experiences I’ve had, and I’d love to talk more about it!

CHINA — My current fascination is exploring as much of China as I can! After a bad experience in my early travels, I finally returned with a lot more travel experience, and absolutely fell in love. China is truly ahead of the curve, and as they say “living in the future”, but I also loved that I could still experience a lot of their traditional past!

SAUDI ARABIA — before I got stuck in the woarzone earlier this year, I traveled solo to Saudi expecting difficulties and judgement. Instead, I was treated with respect, and I
As I approach my 150th country and 12 years of continuous travel, I’ve decided it’s time to start reflecting back on all of these extraordinary places and experiences, and what better way than to finally answer the top question I get, “What’s been your favorite country?”

My answer is usually, “The next one!”

But now it’s time to go more in depth! Every week I’ll be posting what my favorites have (and have not) been, but in a variety of topics!

Please read the caption of each for the country and why it shattered my expectations! 

My passion has and always will be photography and writing, so please let me know if you enjoy posts like this one, and also any “best or worst” topics you’d like me to cover! 

Thank you, as always, I appreciate each and every one of you who has followed my journey around the world!

—————

For anyone new here: Hi! I’m Alyssa Ramos, one of this generations’ most traveled and most experienced solo travel women in the world! I’ve been to 146 countries so far, and Antarctica 4x over 12 years, with a passion for shattering negative stereotypes about women, animals, cultures, and countries. My goal is to inspire you to travel off the typical path. Follow me @mylifesatravelmovie for expert tips and inspiration! 

BURUNDI — This has been one of my favorite “hidden gems” in Africa, and it completely shattered my expectations (even though I got off the plane in the wrong country trying to get there)! I was shown around by locals, who took me to an incredible waterfall, a drum ceremony, and then they invited me to a wedding!! It’s been one of the most real, unique experiences I’ve had, and I’d love to talk more about it!

CHINA — My current fascination is exploring as much of China as I can! After a bad experience in my early travels, I finally returned with a lot more travel experience, and absolutely fell in love. China is truly ahead of the curve, and as they say “living in the future”, but I also loved that I could still experience a lot of their traditional past!

SAUDI ARABIA — before I got stuck in the woarzone earlier this year, I traveled solo to Saudi expecting difficulties and judgement. Instead, I was treated with respect, and I
As I approach my 150th country and 12 years of continuous travel, I’ve decided it’s time to start reflecting back on all of these extraordinary places and experiences, and what better way than to finally answer the top question I get, “What’s been your favorite country?”

My answer is usually, “The next one!”

But now it’s time to go more in depth! Every week I’ll be posting what my favorites have (and have not) been, but in a variety of topics!

Please read the caption of each for the country and why it shattered my expectations! 

My passion has and always will be photography and writing, so please let me know if you enjoy posts like this one, and also any “best or worst” topics you’d like me to cover! 

Thank you, as always, I appreciate each and every one of you who has followed my journey around the world!

—————

For anyone new here: Hi! I’m Alyssa Ramos, one of this generations’ most traveled and most experienced solo travel women in the world! I’ve been to 146 countries so far, and Antarctica 4x over 12 years, with a passion for shattering negative stereotypes about women, animals, cultures, and countries. My goal is to inspire you to travel off the typical path. Follow me @mylifesatravelmovie for expert tips and inspiration! 

BURUNDI — This has been one of my favorite “hidden gems” in Africa, and it completely shattered my expectations (even though I got off the plane in the wrong country trying to get there)! I was shown around by locals, who took me to an incredible waterfall, a drum ceremony, and then they invited me to a wedding!! It’s been one of the most real, unique experiences I’ve had, and I’d love to talk more about it!

CHINA — My current fascination is exploring as much of China as I can! After a bad experience in my early travels, I finally returned with a lot more travel experience, and absolutely fell in love. China is truly ahead of the curve, and as they say “living in the future”, but I also loved that I could still experience a lot of their traditional past!

SAUDI ARABIA — before I got stuck in the woarzone earlier this year, I traveled solo to Saudi expecting difficulties and judgement. Instead, I was treated with respect, and I
As I approach my 150th country and 12 years of continuous travel, I’ve decided it’s time to start reflecting back on all of these extraordinary places and experiences, and what better way than to finally answer the top question I get, “What’s been your favorite country?” My answer is usually, “The next one!” But now it’s time to go more in depth! Every week I’ll be posting what my favorites have (and have not) been, but in a variety of topics! Please read the caption of each for the country and why it shattered my expectations! My passion has and always will be photography and writing, so please let me know if you enjoy posts like this one, and also any “best or worst” topics you’d like me to cover! Thank you, as always, I appreciate each and every one of you who has followed my journey around the world! ————— For anyone new here: Hi! I’m Alyssa Ramos, one of this generations’ most traveled and most experienced solo travel women in the world! I’ve been to 146 countries so far, and Antarctica 4x over 12 years, with a passion for shattering negative stereotypes about women, animals, cultures, and countries. My goal is to inspire you to travel off the typical path. Follow me @mylifesatravelmovie for expert tips and inspiration! BURUNDI — This has been one of my favorite “hidden gems” in Africa, and it completely shattered my expectations (even though I got off the plane in the wrong country trying to get there)! I was shown around by locals, who took me to an incredible waterfall, a drum ceremony, and then they invited me to a wedding!! It’s been one of the most real, unique experiences I’ve had, and I’d love to talk more about it! CHINA — My current fascination is exploring as much of China as I can! After a bad experience in my early travels, I finally returned with a lot more travel experience, and absolutely fell in love. China is truly ahead of the curve, and as they say “living in the future”, but I also loved that I could still experience a lot of their traditional past! SAUDI ARABIA — before I got stuck in the woarzone earlier this year, I traveled solo to Saudi expecting difficulties and judgement. Instead, I was treated with respect, and I
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I bought a new phone in China bc you get a decent tax refund, but soon after, it started talking to me in Chinese, and then people started calling it and sending text messages! I honestly felt like I was in a movie, where you find a phone and then suddenly you’re forced to carry out some crazy mission or something! Turns out, for some reason, the girl who sold me the phone put her own SIM card in it to activate it (no idea why), and it was all her friends calling her. 😂 Anyway, FYI you’re NOT supposed to open any tax refund products from their boxes before you leave the country! And you have to get the papers signed/approved BEFORE and after customs! Makes a few hundred dolla difference! ———— New here? Hi! I’m Alyssa Ramos @mylifesatravelmovie, one of the world’s most experienced solo female travelers who has been to 146 countries plus Antarctica 4x. Follow here for bucketlist and peculiar travel destinations and encounters!
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A pod of 15 Orcas surrounded our small boat in La Ventana, Mexico… my reaction was squealing like a child and I even cried a few tears (don’t tell anyone). Then, after careful behavioral assessment by our marine biologist guide, we were given permission to swim with them for about 2 minutes! I cried even more after that, it was one of the most magical moments of my life! This was an ethical Sea Safari trip with an experienced, animals-first, women-run company. Orca tours do not exist since you cannot predict when they will show up. There are also many rules and regulations to keep this safe and ethical, so please check out my other posts about it, and for info on how to book this trip, search “orcas” on my blog - mylifesamovie.com! Is this anyone else’s dream? ——————- For anyone new: Hi! I’m Alyssa! I am one of the first OG solo female travel blogger/influencers who started traveling 14 years ago and hasn’t stopped! I’ve been to 146 countries solo so far, Antarctica 4x, climbed Kilimanjaro and Everest Basecamp, and my hobby is swimming with apex predators. I’m from the U.S. but moved abroad many years ago, now I live part time on a vineyard in Sardinia, and Tulum! Please follow me here for expert travel tips and wild stories from the most unique places on earth!
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